About Pam

Pam is a deeply loving, caring, compassionate spiritual seeker who thrives when serving others. She considers herself to be a grief steward, focusing her time and expertise on assisting grievers to thrive after all types of loss experiences. She is interested in complicated grief reactions and has pursued numerous specialty certifications to provide grievers who have lost a loved one to physical death or the end of a significant relationship, adolescents and adults who have brain injuries or have been in serious car wrecks and other traumatic experiences with exceptional services.

Pam’s personality type is an INFJ, a very rare type found in only one percent of the population. INFJ s tend to be:

• quietly forceful, original, sensitive, thoughtful and conscientious.
• deeply concerned for others, their feelings and their well-being
• work with perseverance and originality
• be motivated by a larger purpose or mission they want to accomplish
• be respected for their clear convictions regarding how to serve the common good
• be extremely intuitive about people
• be individualistic, more than a leader or a follower
• be well-respected for perseverance in doing the right thing for individuals who are oppressed and for causes not for personal glory or political power but to be of service
• known for complex, deep feelings, holding deep convictions about the weightier matters of life, living life by their value and convictions.
• integrity, originality, vision and creativity are all very important
• excellent listeners, patient, supportive, perceptive, empathetic, gentle and soft-spoken
• thoughtful, gentle, calm working hard to maintain harmonious relationships.
• willing to do what they believe is right, because they believe so firmly in their vision, making it easy for most people trust and respect them immediately.
• deeply dedicated to causes and meaningful work.
• may take things too personally and can be difficult to get to know, preferring to get to know people in one-on-one situations
• usually seem more outgoing than they actually are.
• perfectionists, decisive, organized, good planners who like to set goals and achieve them, especially coming up with solutions for individual and systems growth with their ultimate goal to make the world better for all people.
• deeply dedicated to causes and meaningful work and living a life filled with meaning, passion and purpose.

Pam is an Enneagram Type 2, the Helper on the Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator. Helpers are deeply unselfish, humble, thoughtful, warm hearted, forgiving, sincere and altruistic, giving unconditional love because they feel it is a privilege to be in the lives of others. As such, they offer empathic, compassionate feeling for others because they are caring and concerned about others needs. Helpers are encouraging and appreciative, consistently able to see the good in others. To the helper, service is important, for they are a truly loving person: nurturing, generous and giving.